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Question by: Христина Age: 16

Who should I turn to for help?

I’d like to ask who I should turn to. My condition has been getting worse lately. I used to self-harm before, but I stopped for a year or two. During that time, things didn’t actually improve because I was constantly thinking about it. Now I’ve started again, and the worst part is that thoughts of suicide have become unbearable. They didn’t just appear out of nowhere—it’s that I’ve grown tired of everything, of everything I’ve done, of going out, of talking to people. I feel constant anxiety and stress with no apparent reason. I also have a nervous tic, and I don’t know why my thoughts keep counting the number of repeated movements—even steps. It often makes it hard to do simple things or concentrate on anything. I’ve never been to a specialist before, and I’m afraid I’ll go to the wrong place. I don’t really understand my situation because I can’t see it from the outside, but I feel terrible, especially in recent months. My mood completely disappears from time to time—I stop talking much and just want it all to disappear. Then I become hyperactive, and it’s all a cycle. Please help me. Thank you.
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Alla Velenko — psychologist
Alla Velenko psychologist
Київ ·
Good afternoon! I completely agree with my colleague. It seems you have deep childhood psycho-emotional traumas that have led to self-harm. And the suicidal state may already be a consequence of unresolved issues. This means you need systematic and persistent help from both a psychiatrist and a psychotherapist. Do your parents know about your problems?
Liudmyla Petrivna Kolesnyk — psychologist
м Чернігів ·
Hello!

Thank you for finding the courage to write about how you’re feeling. From what you’ve shared, it’s clear how much pain, tension, and exhaustion you’ve been carrying lately. It’s important that you didn’t stay alone with this and reached out for help.

The return of self-harm and the intrusive, unbearable thoughts of suicide are serious signals that you need support right now. Don’t wait until things get even worse.

It would be best to consult a psychotherapist or psychologist who works with crisis states, as well as a psychiatrist. A psychiatric consultation doesn’t mean there’s something "wrong" with you. This specialist will help assess your condition, address your anxiety, mood swings, intrusive thoughts, and determine what kind of support would be most helpful for you.

I especially noticed that you described constant anxiety, nervous tics, the need to count movements, significant mood swings, and a loss of interest in things you used to enjoy. All of this deserves careful professional evaluation, and you don’t need to figure out on your own "how serious" your situation is.

If thoughts of suicide become so overwhelming that you fear you won’t be able to cope with them, please don’t stay alone. Reach out for urgent help to loved ones, crisis services, or emergency medical services.

Right now, the most important thing is not to seek explanations for why you feel so bad, but to allow yourself to receive support. You don’t have to deal with this alone. Help exists, and you deserve to get it.
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