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Question by: Johny Age: 49

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The author describes changes in their relationship with their spouse after their return from evacuation, where the spouse had an affair. The couple began discussing their sexual fantasies and interest in group sex and swinging but decided not to rush into acting on these desires. The author experiences intrusive fantasies about a sanctioned affair by their spouse, which evokes mixed feelings in both—excitement as well as fear of transitioning from fantasy to reality. They ask for advice on whether to discuss these fantasies further or leave them unspoken.

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