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Y Age: 33 July 27, 2026

Vacation without my child

My child is 1 year and 9 months old. I want to go on a 10-day vacation for the first time, but I’m worried it might be too early. My child will stay with their father, but they are very attached to me. Any time I leave the apartment, it tri…

Valentyna Zhemchuzhnikova
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psychologist: Valentyna Zhemchuzhnikova
How long did you leave the child with the father? How long does the tantrum last when you leave? How well does your husband handle the role of a father—can he play with the child, distract them, take them for walks, and organize a full routine so the child can maintain their usual life when you're not there? Overall, if there's no experience of staying calmly without you for even a few days, ten days will be a lot. I…
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lika Age: 40 July 25, 2026

Anxiety at a new job

It’s been two months since I started my new job. Before that, I worked at the same place for nine years. Now my salary is three times higher, but so is my anxiety. I either sleep poorly or fall asleep right after work. I feel like I’m not s…

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Еля Age: 23 July 24, 2026

How to make life real and better

I can’t tell this to anyone, so I’m writing it here. My life has been quite uninteresting, and it’s gotten worse since the war. (I’m not saying I have it worse than everyone else—I’m just saying it’s hard for me.) After the full-scale invas…

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Nickname_031b9 Age: 25 July 17, 2026

I don’t love my child and want to run away from him

To be honest, I’m writing this sitting in a closed room crying after another one of my child’s tantrums. I’m 25 years old, and my child is almost four. Unfortunately, they are a special needs child. From birth until about six months old, th…

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Nickname_43f9a Age: 40 July 14, 2026

How do I move forward...

I lived in illusions and rose-colored glasses for 10 years... Two months ago, I found out about my husband’s long-term infidelity (I think it wasn’t just with one woman). He betrayed me during the hardest period of my life—pregnancy, which…

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Nickname_5cf10 Age: 17 July 8, 2026

Moving away

Hello! Could you please advise me on how I could ease my state right now? I’m 17, and soon—in September—I’ll be moving to Poland to study. For the past three years, this has been my goal. I’ve been studying English intensely, passed the C1…

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Катерина Age: 42 July 1, 2026

Confusing man

Hello! Almost three years ago, I met a man and we started a relationship. At first, there were lots of compliments, meetings, and promises. But after a month, he started postponing our meetings and eventually stopped calling. I would messag…

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Hannah Age: 22 June 28, 2026

What's wrong with me?

I'm 22, almost 23. I’m too embarrassed of myself, I have no friends, no job. I’m starting my second higher education degree. I’m really scared of thinking about new classmates there. I don’t know how to make acquaintances, but I really want…

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Tatyana2512 Age: 56 June 28, 2026

My husband's unfounded jealousy

My husband has delusional jealousy. It’s been going on for five years now. He’s seen a psychologist several times, but the effect only lasted for a while. He started drinking and causing scandals, then calmed down and became reasonable agai…

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